Beauty of Communications

The list of why women…men….humans are insecure could be a very long list. As a human you don’t just start with insecurities they come as we move forward in life. Trust me I can relate from personal experience.

A lack of transparency results in distrust and a deep sense of insecurity.

                                                                          – Dalai Lama

What Triggers insecurities ?

• Physical appearance
• Social surroundings/status
• his/her past with the opposite sex or parenting

Whatever made an insecure human being doesn’t make them a unstable being. There are ways of dealing with an insecure person of the opposite sex especially if the good out weigh the bad. There are rules to every relationship and there are special ones that apply to a specific intimate relationship (but that varies between the people in the situation).

– Debra Winger

Rules of Engagement:

1. Be honest from the start: Why not be honest from jump, do you have something to lose? If your perfectly honest from the beginning of the relationship when there’s nothing lose you set the standards for your relationship/situation; I call this keeping it TRILL and letting someone make their own decisions. Lies surface, so avoid them.
2. Communication: I can’t stress it enough to encourage communication in ANY relationship. When a problem arises or erratic behavior comes into play describe it, what it means and how it effects you.
3. Don’t give a reason for them to be insecure
4. Set REALISTIC  achievable goals that you can work towards together, the goal of this is so you can celebrate together better known as quality time.
5. never ever put her/him down. Admire and acknowledge his/her strengths.

Don’t sabotage it (relationship) either being insecure and jealous yourself, create a healthy relationship. Support your mate help them feel secure with you, after all every man/women aren’t alike.

Just a little entertainment on the topic at hand, watched it while doing research for the post, really good movie.

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