So it’s Cuffing season, have you thought about questions to ask the person you cuffed this season? or have you thought about long term questions that are important to your love affair? 

Well I personally have a problem keeping a man, it’s easy to pick up a few but it’s HARD TO KEEP JUST ONE!! It has nothing to ultimately do with me. I just figure that everyone has a preference and there comes a time when you just have to move on because your true love is somewhere waiting for you. Being in a relationship and having a spouse, special person, lover is not a simple job. It’s one of the hardest jobs in LIFE.  I  know someone agrees with me.  As a person that wants to be loved and wants to love, you have to have requirements and not be afraid to tell them what you want, which means that person shouldn’t be afraid to provide or meet those requirement.  Relationships are 50/50 and you have to give 100% into them ( OK it makes sense but sounds confusing, just a little).

What will it take for you to solely be with 1 person? 

Well I don’t have the answer but I have an idea, but I dug up some questions that may tickle your brain and make you reconsider somethings

1. What makes this person different (better?) than the other short-term people you’ve dated?
2. Do you ever have doubts about being with one person for so long?
3. How important is communication? Do you talk out every little thing?
4.  How can you tell the difference between a deal breaker and a small compromise to save the relationship?
5. Did you always believe in being with one person forever?
6. What do you do if you really, really want to have sex with someone else? But for real, what if they’re super hot and basically grabbing your genitals?
7.  Is it possible to be 100 percent honest all the time and not hurt the other person’s feelings?
8. Do you have to spend ALL your time together?
9.  Does the sex ever get boring? Even if it’s like, super great right now, it has to get boring at some point. What do you do?
10. Do you know you wanted to date them right away? Or was it a slow burn of falling in love?
11. What do you do if you want to be alone for a while?
12. Is this better than being single?
13. Do you ever get tired of each other? What do you do?
14. Do you ever absolutely hate them during an argument?
15. How can you be sure your love for them will last forever?
16. How do you know this person is absolutely worth the work? HOW DO YOU KNOW?
17. Would you allow them to have a best friend of the opposite sex?
18. Would you compromise your happiness for the success of the relationship?
19. What would you define as cheating?
20. How should finances be planned between a couple?
21. Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?

So just like 50 cent , I provided you with 21 questions…..so think about it and think about if you want to REALLY love and be loved. 

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