A “goal digger” is a play on the term “gold digger” but with a positive twist. It refers to someone who is highly motivated, ambitious, and focused on achieving their goals. A goal digger is dedicated to personal and professional success, often working hard to turn dreams into reality through determination and a strong work ethic. Unlike a “gold digger,” who seeks financial gain through others, a goal digger is self-driven and works towards their own achievements.
Goal diggers and Golddiggers are two different types of persons but they are structured the same in terms of value, ethics, and what’s the law for their bonds to be fulfilled with others of intimacy, relative, private and public affairs. Either a person wants to add to your life and/or take. It’s up to you to identify who’s reciprocally contributing. Actions speak 🗣️ louder than words but in some cases you need both with time.
I mean think about it? Both types want security, leadership (or submission), resources, the best mate(s), substance, an heir of some form and their time to be accounted for. Both can fill the positions of a help mate, partner, lover, and friend but their intentions will always be different.
The gold digger is one who is selfish, want to be around the elite, be the elite, and has the power for themself to manipulate situations for their own benefit. In the cross, some may be rewarded depending on the job they had to carry out to help them get to a new position or level, therefore, their intentions are only in the bottom line of what’s in it for them.
The goal digger has life goals that include humanity and being. Developing a flow and pace of life that contributes to all living things. Goal diggers understand and know that their purpose, gifts 🎁 and talents are treasures to be shared.
This deals with the base of all relationships because for me I don’t even want to be sensual and intimate with someone who hasn’t established a first base, a friendship or high moral obligation. This is where we establish the foundation of what we have in common, how we share time, and create collectively. Having a lover is a difficult thing which stems from the other intimate relationships and experiences you’ve had.
It’s hard to give someone a fresh start when you’ve been burnt 🥵 by others even though you are walking into a new situation. I’ve learned that this is something that we all need to pay attention to and mend. This is why it’s important to work on yourself, individually before exploring your options but if you so happen to lock 🔐 in with someone there will likely be work to do with each other to help heal one another, and individual work.
The vision in mind is connecting to people who have trades and skills economically; knowing how their service can benefit everyone and vice versa. They have a vision, mission, and plan that includes more than just them. They dig goals for all parties involved.
I’d rather have trust first then love 💕.
BK
Business is even better when I have a friendship with you. I put your foundational needs into perspective and I have different care about you in the process. If it’s just general business then standard rules apply and it’s minimal for me to overly care about you personally outside of us honoring our commitments. Doing good business as we should, and that can lead to other forms of trusted relations if it is willed by The Most High.
I know I have to change my mind, environments, and set boundaries. People are always going to be peopling. And that’s exactly what they have been showing us since the beginning of time.
I could do less overthinking and being unkind to myself. I have been working on a proper way to date and build a courtship of habits to establish key and core relationships in my life. Retrospectively I’ve just come to accept and recognize that I have been working on making this transformation for years and the transitions have been very harsh to me. And if I can be honest with you, it’s been hard for others who have dealt with me during this time.
Every day I think about my day and if it was worthwhile, and if I would be happy if I died at the end of that day. That is something I am working towards changing because everyday should be fulfilled with purpose and intention.
Same lessons, different situation-ships and I’ve finally received the message, that “relationships are work and business is involved”. It is the business of life, and your lifestyle is built on relationships which is different for everyone.
My goal digging is nurturing & gathering common people to collectively build a community. Where all relationships are healthy, and you can find ones to mate with each aspect of your life. That’s polyamorous. Which should be learned before committing to any monogamous relationships.
As a hue-man, I’m constantly fixing crowns and some others along my journey have helped me fix mine.
My mentor always asked me what is the difference between a prostitute, being a hoe and a wife? Leave a comment and let me know what you think it is and we’ll discuss this in a follow up post.
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