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Women today are artificial. They got fake attitudes, asses, breast, names, personas,hair and bank accounts. What is a real women anyway? What is a real man? I’m still waiting cause too many women and men claim to be the real McCoy but have failed to live up to the complete nature of their roles.

What is a real woman ? Ya’ll know I love my quotes 🙂

There are so many reasons why women were created. To simply sum it up (do your own research) God created a woman from a mans rib (that’s what the bible says) to be equal, to bear children and to sustain life. It’s us who bear children and the men help create but yet many walk away from their responsibility in today’s generation. It’s sad to see women as single parents and majority are African American households. A Woman is suppose to be a helper to her man. That’s why we were created ! Not to find a man but for him to find her. Motivate him, help him achieve his goals and reach dreams that he would usually only imagine. Send him nothing but good vibes and positive words. Never nag but always question…be the queen you were born to be 🙂

 

 

What is a real man?

It’s a man’s world so what exactly are real traits of a man? I’ve asked myself this many times because at the age of 23 let’s face it your future will always pop in your head and your family will begin to ask you your life plans. It’s not just masculinity either men or that macho shit that you guys be on. A man finds his purpose in life and lives it out to his best ability without fear. He protects, provide, and leads. A real man is a true leader bottom line.

1. A real man will value more than your beauty
2. Will never be intimidated by your motivation
3. He will have more interests than just you
4. He will always give you answers and be direct
5. He will trust you especially if you proved to be trust worthy
6. he’s cool, calm, and collected
7. Show you respect
8. Will put real effort into your relationship
9. Will want you to be the best version of you without changing you.

 

20 characteristics of a the ultimate man according to Chad

1. A man treats women with respect. If you don’t respect women, you’re not a man. Period.

2. A man understands that greater happiness lies in helping others, not helping himself.

3. A man doesn’t stand still while the world passes him by, he continually pushes himself.

4. A man is a leader in at least one aspect of his life, whether this means his family, with his friends or just in general. But he can also follow. The world wouldn’t work if everyone was trying to lead in every aspect of life.

5. You can depend on a man. You can’t depend on a boy.

6. “You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself.” ~ Galileo Galilei

A man is proud, often to a fault. He doesn’t “change” but rather evolves. Ladies, don’t try and change your man, but let him evolve into the man he’s meant to be.

7. A man doesn’t need to be able to fight or to protect himself and his family physically. But it helps. Hedoes however need to be willing to do whatever it takes to keep his family safe and happy.

8. A man lives for something; a purpose beyond his own personal gains. This can come with time, and with family. It doesn’t always happen right away.

9. “Many of the greatest accomplishments of the world were accomplished by tired and discouraged men who kept on working.”

A man gets depressed, he gets sad, he thinks about quitting and folding, but he never does. He pushes through adversity.

10. “When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself.” ~ Louis Nizer

A man has faults. It’s important to understand this.

11. A man can laugh at himself.

12. A man takes pride in how he looks and lives his life. He’s not ashamed by who he is, what he does or how he looks, even if he’s trying to change one of the aforementioned.

13. “Young men want to be faithful, and are not; old men want to be faithless, and cannot.” ~ Oscar Wilde

Men learn what is truly important over time. If they’re lucky, they’ll have a sense of it early on.

14. “How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.” ~ Oscar Wilde

If a man finds someone special, he doesn’t treat her like she’s everyone else.

15. A man has fears, but he isn’t ruled by them.

16. A man learns from his mistakes. Although he might take a few cracks at it.

17. A man does what is necessary. Even if it’s the hardest decision, or the most unpopular one.

18. A man can appreciate the greatness that is ‘The Gladiator’.

19. A man thrives on competition.

20. “For a man to achieve all that is expected of him, he must regard himself greater than he is.” ~ Johann Wolfgang

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A real man never hurts a woman. Be very careful when you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. A woman was made from a man’s rib, not his feet to be walked on and over. Not from his head to be superior but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved.