Today’s relationships consist more of the other woman and side chicks than a one on one. That means that there aren’t so many faithful couples out here. Call me hopeless romantic (in love with love) and it doesn’t make me a creep either. I just think of being hopeless romantic as a art form to engage and to keep my lover engaged/active. There could never be a dull moment with someone that’s hopeless romantic unless your just someone who’s not in the mood to be loved. Then again you have some who have never been loved so its very exceptional for them to intake love to disperse it.
The Other Woman
The other woman is the predator. She’s someone who knows how to take care of a man because she’ll do everything that your doing and a bit more without a hassle. She’s breaking up happy homes and more than likely the one who’s next in line to marry your man if your not lucky enough to hold it down.
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the lover of a married or similarly attached man.
Courtesy of dictionary.com
I’ve never been the other woman that I’ve literally known about so I couldn’t relate to the feeling but I’ve been the girl that my boyfriend had the other woman. It was a lonely feeling, depressing, and I knew about the relationship for 3 years but I ignored it because I was the alpha female so in my mind she didn’t matter. Truth is even though he let me know my place could never be filled I begin to snap in to reality that I was sharing and understood that I was out of my league. I put so much into my relationship that for 2 years I battled letting it go vs. wading waiting to fight to keep. Eventually I realized that I was young and way over my head. I made myself move forward and he ended up having a baby with her. In the end nobody wins the other woman or the woman being cheated on because there are no shortcuts to anything especially somebodies heart.
This relationship made me stronger and wake up but it kilt that feeling of being a completely free spirit to love. Love today has been a game, a plan, and a real war field. Love is free and you should feel free to love, love is the protection against sadness, uneasy, and emptiness.
Her problems are worse than mines because now she has a child by someone who’s not mentally or physically with her. Suffering from insecurity is much worse than having a hard to time to love again, wouldn’t you agree?
Someone can always love me and teach me how to love again but I could never feel insecure because I know who I am.
Check out Inside The Guilty Mind of The Other Woman
The Side-chick
Is just another term or slang used to describe the other woman. I believe there’s a small difference between the two. Side Chicks are more of a career than a person with intent and purpose. Check out my previous post: Side Piece Thursday
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