I’m just up thinking, and I just wanted to write. Something randomly popped in my mind that’s actually been lingering for quite sometime. I may be too spiritual or think to much for some but hey! In reality thinking is the hardest job there is.
Three things are picking at my mind:
1. Fundamentals of dating
2. The realization of cursing and swearing
3. Creating and setting boundaries for life
Learning the FUNDAMENTAL OF DATING
In today’s world there is almost no such thing as dating. It’s meet, talk, have sex and get caught in a situation not knowing how you truly got there. I’m new to this but I choose the path of being single and dating because I’d rather be by myself than be in a unhealthy, miserable, relationship. I’m pretty sure everyone has had there share.
In my stage of dating there are rules and guidelines I set for myself but I make sure that they don’t intercept with who am I and what I truly want. You always want to be free to be yourself, keep in confidence that you actually have nothing to lose. Man thing is hoping that you and your companion can come to a understanding, you’ve discussed imperative details to make sure that it can be a one accord one day. Doesn’t mean either party has to be in a relationship. It just means there’s no guessing when it comes to a deal or no deal. You know what to expect from them over time if there going to be apart of your life.
Should you date multiple people? In my opinion, and from current situations (things I’m actually going through) my first answer would be NO! I don’t like to spread myself thin. How can I completely get to know you and see where we can go, if I’m balancing you, Tom, Harry, and Rick. I’m in it for the long haul and my goals are pretty set so if I declare we’re dating I don’t feel the need to stray unless it’s just not working. Now formerly, realistically, and learning about dating you shouldn’t waste your time, remain open minded, and keep options. This varies for different people, for me I’m very good at letting someone know we’re friends. I’m heartless like that because I’m caring, loyal, and trustworthy in every relationship and aspect.
The Realization of Cursing and Swearing
Well you know as I’m campaigning I’m giving you the best of me. I’m rebuilding my character to become personally professional. I’m participating in something I created called 30 Day Spirfitness challenge. I’m working on me spiritually and getting in shape. I’m on day #9 and I’ve been working on this challenge for 3 days now! But I’ve learned slot about myself and communication. To think cautiously before I speak is a major one. I don’t think too much before I speak because I’m use to being outspoken and just telling it like it is. That’s has turned out to be a very bad habit. How can you fully assess a situation in that manner? You can’t ! Lbs so I’m still going hard on being a cautious thinker and speaker.
Creating and Setting Boundaries for Life
In life there is a such thing as freedom but even freedom has boundaries. Setting up your morals, values, and lifestyle to be one isn’t so difficult as many make it. Just be true to yourself and more so honest about specific things in Your life. If you don’t set respect for you and others, honesty, loyalty, forgiveness, open minded, and the will to overcome all things up as some of your core boundaries, I don’t believe that your journey to sustain a peaceful and successful life is complete. It may be real but it’s not complete. Just think about how smooth your journey would be without such characteristics? You tell me if I’m right or wrong, let me know if I’ve missed a couple too.
To grow is realization of what’s been holding you back for so long, realize it since you’ve experienced it and change.
YOURS TRUELY❤️😘💯
BK
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